Grace Paley

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To translate a poem from thinking into English takes all night.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Writing
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That heartbreaking moment when you finish an amazing book, and you are forced to return to reality.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Book
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But what's a writer for? The whole point is to put yourself into other lives, other heads-writers have always done that. If you screw up, so someone will tell you, that's all.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Screw Ups
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…I go through a story for lies. I might discover the lie of trying to show off. Sometimes they’re lies of character. Sometimes they are lies of writing the most beautiful sentence in the world that has nothing to do with the story.
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Collection: Beautiful
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Here I am in the garden laughing an old woman with heavy breasts and a nicely mapped face how did this happen well that's who I wanted to be at last a woman in the old style sitting stout thighs apart under a big skirt grandchild sliding on off my lap a pleasant summer perspiration that's my old man across the yard he's talking to the meter reader he's telling him the world's sad story how electricity is oil or uranium and so forth I tell my grandson run over to your grandpa ask him to sit beside me for a minute I am suddenly exhausted by my desire to kiss his sweet explaining lips.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Summer
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If you're old and you're healthy and you're active - I don't mean you have to be politically active - if you remain interested in other people and the world, then you live as well as your health will allow.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Mean
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I liked the education. I liked people learning things all around me and I liked going to people's classes.
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Collection: Class
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Sometimes before people know what they're saying, they already love the language.
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Collection: People
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I saw my ex-husband in the street. I was sitting on the steps of the new library. Hello, my life, I said. We had once been married for twenty-seven years, so I felt justified. He said, What? What life? No life of mine.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Husband
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I loved the comradeship of the sixties and the seventies, and I still maintain friendships with the people I worked with then - the ones that are still alive. That's one of the great gifts of our political movements, great friendships . . . and also a few enmities.
- Grace Paley
Collection: People
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There isn't a story written that isn't about blood and money. People and their relationship to each other is the blood, the family. And how they live, the money of it.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Blood
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It wasn't until I lived in the countryside that I began to understand the life of the countryside and the people in it and trees and water. Just learning about water is an education for a city person.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Cities
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Waves, once they land on the beach, are not reversible.
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Collection: Beach
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Hindsight, usually looked down upon, is probably as valuable as foresight, since it does include a few facts.
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Collection: Doe
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I should have written more. I should have written more during the period when I just liked so much doing the political work in the streets.
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Collection: Should Have
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My job is to get people to write something truthful, something about truth and beauty - wherever they are - and to understand how literature is made. And then if they become great writers, that's great, and probably has nothing to do with me.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Jobs
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When you have a peace movement that has an actual war, it's different from one that has wars that our country is not totally involved in. During the war in Vietnam, and to a lesser degree the wars in Central America where our country was directly involved, it was easier to organize.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Country
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There is a long time in me between knowing and telling.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Knowing
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I was fortunate that by the time I was born, there were a lot of comforts and at the same time I lived in a neighborhood where it was brought to my eyes every single day that people didn't live like me. Every day I knew that many of my friends "got relief." That was important in my thinking about the world, thinking that not everybody lived that way.
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Collection: Eye
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If you're feminist, it means that you've noticed that male ownership of the direction of female lives has been the order of the day for a few thousand years, and it isn't natural.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Mean
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Old age is not a good thing. It can be really hard, and those of us who have it a little easier should keep in mind that there are hundreds of thousands of people who are not as well off.
- Grace Paley
Collection: People
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Most of the Womens Libbers I knew really didnt want to have a piece of the mens pie. They thought that pie was kind of poisonous, toxic, really full of weapons, poison gases, all kinds of mean junk we didnt even want a slice of.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Mean
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My vocabulary is adequate for writing notes and keeping journals but absolutely useless for an active moral life.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Writing
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I've started many novels, and they all ended on page seven.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Pages
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I'm really sorry for people growing up right now, because they have some cockeyed idea that they can get by with their eyes closed; the cane they're tapping is money, and that won't take them in the right direction.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Growing Up
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When you think of things that influenced your life, Mother Goose influenced more people than almost any other thing, the rhythms of those poems. Everything after that was a bare imitation of some of those mysterious and materialistic poems.
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Collection: Mother
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Art's too long and life's too short.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Art
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Well, you have children so you know: little children little troubles, big children, big troubles - it's a saying in Yiddish. Maybe the Chinese said it too.
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Collection: Children
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I read a lot. I liked a tremendous number of poets and writers. The person whose work I liked the most was Joyce.
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Collection: Numbers
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I didn't intend. The word "intend" is the wrong word for what I do. It's just that it's something you do, and you can't not do. If you want to do it, and you don't intend to, you do it anyway. The word "intend" is wrong. The word "pressure" is right. It's like any art form.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Art
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Well, by now you must know yourself, honey, whatever you do, life don't stop. It only sits a minute and dreams a dream.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Dream
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I'm seventy-five now. I also have the peculiar luck of having a sister and brother who are fourteen and sixteen years older than me. Their health is not good. It couldn't be at that age. But their spirits are. Both my brother and my sister are an example to me.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Brother
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I am very interested in people trying to write because I don't have a big academic background at all.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Writing
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I don't have any degrees. I went to Hunter College one year and New York University another year. It's just on the basis of my books that I've been hired at any of the places I've been.
- Grace Paley
Collection: New York
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As an older person, I do feel an obligation to tell the story about what was really happening in the fifties, sixties, and seventies, as I saw it.
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Collection: Stories
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I do lots of reading and speaking at many universities about literature and also about politics, which is as much a part of my life as the literature.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Reading
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A lot of sad things have happened to my friends' children, people you knew as babies. They've been killed or become crazy or all kinds of tragic things. There are some people whose children haven't talked to them in fifteen years. There's all kind of meshugaas in this world.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Baby
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People say, "Why do you call your kids up, why do you worry like that?" And I say, "I was raised like that." My grandmother looked at my father with the same eyes when he was sixty and she was eighty-five.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Father
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I did write a number of reports on my political experiences, but there were many omissions, and I feel bad about that because it was work that was interesting and had I written more about it, it could have been useful.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Writing
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I know I've done good work. I've been very serious about my writing, and I've done the best that I could. But I don't feel that I've done more than I should have. In fact, I've done less than I should have.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Writing
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My language limitations here are real. My vocabulary is adequate for writing notes and keeping journals but absolutely useless for an active moral life. If I really knew this language, there would surely be in my head, as there is in Webster's or the Dictionary of American Slang, that unreducible verb designed to tell a person like me what to do next.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Real
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This hill crossed with broken pines and maples lumpy with the burial mounds of uprooted hemlocks (hurricane of '38) out of their rotting hearts generations rise trying once more to become the forest just beyond them tall enough to be called trees in their youth like aspen a bouquet of young beech is gathered they still wear last summer's leaves the lightest brown almost translucent how their stubbornness has decorated the winter woods.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Summer
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Art is too long, and life is too short.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Art
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I might write four lines or I might write twenty. I subtract and I add until I really hit something I want to do. You don't always whittle down, sometimes you whittle up.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Writing
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What we owe men is some freedom from their part in a murderous game in which they kick each other to death with one foot, bracing themselves on our various comfortable places with the other.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Men
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Just when I most needed important conversation, a sniff of the man-wide world, that is, at least one brainy companion who could translate my friendly language into his tongue of undying carnal love, I was forced to lounge in our neighborhood park, surrounded by children.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Children
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A joke is necessary at this time.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Jokes
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When I was about twenty-one, I published a few poems. Maybe I wrote a couple of stories before, but I really began to write stories in my mid-thirties. My kids were still little, and they were in school and day care, and I had begun to think a lot about wanting to tell some stories and not being able to do it in poetry.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Couple
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In the park I met other women and I started to get interested in their lives. I developed a lot of pressure to talk about women's lives, and children's lives, too. Children interest me tremendously.
- Grace Paley
Collection: Children