Mary Ann Shaffer

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I have gone to [this bookshop] for years, always finding the one book I wanted - and then three more I hadn’t known I wanted.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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I don't want to be married just to be married. I can't think of anything lonelier than spending the rest of my life with someone I can't talk to, or worse, someone I can't be silent with.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Life
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That's what I love about reading: one tiny thing will interest you in a book, and that tiny thing will lead you to another book, and another bit there will lead you onto a third book. It's geometrically progressive - all with no end in sight, and for no other reason than sheer enjoyment.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Reading
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Humour is the best way to make the unbearable bearable.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Way
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I think you learn more if you're laughing at the same time.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Teacher
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I hope, too, that my book will illuminate my belief that love of art - be it poetry, storytelling, painting, sculpture, or music - enables people to transcend any barrier man has yet devised.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Art
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I never met a man half so true as a dog. Treat a dog right, and he'll treat you right. He'll keep you company, be your friend, and never ask you no questions. Cats is different, but I never held that against 'em.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Dog
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All my life I thought that the story was over when the hero and heroine were safely engaged -- after all, what's good enough for Jane Austen ought to be good enough for anyone. But it's a lie. The story is about to begin, and every day will be a new piece of the plot.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Love
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Have you ever noticed that when your mind is awakened or drawn to someone new, that person's name suddenly pops up everywhere you go? My friend Sophie calls it coincidence, and Mr. Simpless, my parson friend, calls it Grace. He thinks that if one cares deeply about someone or something new one throws a kind of energy out into the world, and "fruitfulness" is drawn in.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Thinking
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We read books, talked books, argued over books and became dearer and dearer to one another.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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Life goes on." What nonsense, I thought, of course it doesn't. It's death that goes on.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Goes On
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Reading good books ruins you for enjoying bad books.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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Perhaps there is some secret sort of homing instinct in books that brings them to their perfect readers. How delightful if that were true.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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Think of it! We could have gone on longing for one another and pretending not to notice forever. This obsession with dignity can ruin your life if you let it.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Thinking
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Reading keeps you from going ga-ga.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Reading
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one year as his wife, and id have become one of those abject, quaking women who look at their husbands when someone asks them a question. I've always despised that type, but I see how it happens now
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Husband
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Those times, I tried to think of something happy, something I'd liked - but not something I loved, for that made it worse.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Thinking
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Naturally curly hair is a curse, and don't ever let anyone tell you different.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Curly Hair
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Men are more interesting in books than they are in real life.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Real
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Because there is nothing I would rather do than rummage through bookshops, I went at once to Hastings & Sons Bookshop upon receiving your letter. I have gone to them for years, always finding the one book I wanted - and then three more I hadn't known I wanted.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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Will Thisbee gave me The Beginner's Cook-Book for Girl Guides. It was just the thing; the writer assumes you know nothing about cookery and writes useful hints - "When adding eggs, break the shells first.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Girl
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The first rule of snooping is to come at it sideways.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Firsts
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I love seeing the bookshops and meeting the booksellers-- booksellers really are a special breed. No one in their right mind would take up clerking in a bookstore for the salary, and no one in his right mind would want to own one-- the margin of profit is too small. So, it has to be a love of readers and reading that makes them do it-- along with first dibs on the new books.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Reading
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My worries travel around in my head on their well worn path
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Worry
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She is one of those ladies who is more beautiful at sixty than she could possibly have been at twenty. (how I hope someone says that about me someday)!
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Beautiful
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But you want to know about the influence of books on my life, and as I've said, there was only one. Seneca. . .Maybe that sounds dull, but the letters aren't - they're witty. I think you learn more if you're laughing at the same time.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Witty
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His writings have made me his friend.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Writing
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I am in a constant state of surprise these days. Actually, now that I calculate, I've been betrothed only one full day, but it seems like my whole life has come into being in the last twenty-four hours. Think of it! We could have gone on longing for one another and pretending not to notice forever. This obsession with dignity can ruin your life if you let it
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Thinking
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When I got up this morning the sea was full of sun pennies - and now it all seems to be covered in lemon scrim. Writers ought to live far inland or next to the city dump, if they are ever to get any work one. Or perhaps they need to be stronger-minded than I am.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Morning
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I much prefer whining to counting my blessings.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Blessing
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I believe I am becoming pathetic. I'll go further, I believe that I am in love with a flower-growing, wood-carving quarryman/carpenter/pig farmer. In fact, I know I am. Perhaps tomorrow I will become entirely miserable at the thought that he doesn't love me back - may, even, care for Remy- but at this precise moment I am succumbing to euphoria. My head and stomach feel quite odd.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Believe
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Isola doesn't approve of small talk and believes in breaking the ice by stomping on it.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Believe
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This obsession with dignity can ruin your life if you let it.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Ruins
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Isn't that something-to know your own soul by hearsay, instead of its own tidings? Why should I let a preacher tell me if I had one or not? If I could believe I hada soul, all by myself, then I could listen to its tidings all by myself.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Believe
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Then i imagined a lifetime of having to cry to get him to be kind, and I went back to no again.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Be Kind
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I, too, have felt that the war goes on and on. When my son, Ian, died at El Alamein-- side by side with... visitors offering their condolences, thinking to comfort me, said, "Life goes on." What nonsense, I thought, of course it doesn't. It's death that goes on; Ian is dead now and will be dead tomorrow and nexe year and forever. There's no end to that. But perhaps there will be an end to the sorrow of it.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: War
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In a good mood I call my hair Chestnut with Gold Glints. In a bad mood, I call it mousy brown
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Hair
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Miss X has always been a ditherer -- she was a ten month baby and has not improved in any material way since then.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Baby
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I don't want to be married just to be married.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Want
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I sometimes think I prefer suitors in books rather than right in front of me. How awful, backward, cowardly, and mentally warped that will be if it turns out to be true.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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I don’t know whether to feel flattered or hunted.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Feels
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If there is Predestination, then God is the devil. by Remy, Ravensbruck concentration camp survivor
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Devil
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Light griefs are loquacious, but the great are dumb.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Grief
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It was amazing to me then, and still is, that so many people who wander into bookshops don't really know what they're after--they only want to look around and hope to see a book that will strike their fancy. And then, being bright enough not to trust the publisher's blurb, they will ask the book clerk the three questions: (1) What is it about? (2) Have you read it? (3) Was it any good?
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book
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Treat a dog right and he'll treat you right - he'll keep you company, be your friend, never ask you no questions. Cats is different, but I never held that against them.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Dog
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People don't know how chickens can turn on you, but they can -- just like mad dogs.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Dog
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‎What a blight that woman is. Do you happen to know why? I lean toward a malignant fairy at her christening.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Fairy
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What on earth did you say to Isola? She stopped in on her way to pick up Pride and Prejudice and to berate me for never telling her about Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy. Why hadn't she known there were better love stories around? Stories not riddled with ill-adjusted men, anguish, death and graveyards!
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Pride
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After all, what's good enough for Austen ought to be good enough for anyone.
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Good Enough
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Do you arrange your books alphabetically? (I hope not.)
- Mary Ann Shaffer
Collection: Book