Tonya Hurley

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You can't have it both ways. Love is too powerful to hide for very long. Deny it and suffer the consequences. Acknowledge it and suffer the consequences. Revealing it can either be shameful or it can be liberating. It is for others to decide which it will be.
- Tonya Hurley
Collection: Powerful
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A true friend is someone who is always there for you, with no agenda other than the friendship itself. We rely on our friends to lift us up in bad times, to keep us grounded in good times, but most importantly, to be there for us when we need nothing at all.
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Collection: True Friend
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We all have ideas about love and death. We keep a close eye out for them our entire lives, seeking one and avoiding the other, knowing all the while that both are mostly beyond our control. It is a both scary and exciting predicament. In the end, it all depends on how you look at it. One thing is for sure; it is never quite what you expect.
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Collection: Eye
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The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about each other, but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.
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Collection: Feels
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The only reason to live is to love and the only reason to love is to live.
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Collection: Love Is
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We all like to think the world ends when we do. The truth is our acquaintances, our friends, and our loved ones all live on, and through them, so do we. It's not about what you had, but what you gave. It's not about how you looked, but how you lived. And it's not just about being remembered. It's about giving people a good reason to remember you.
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Collection: Inspiration
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We are often so distracted by the internal war between what we want to do and what we have to do that we overlook what we need to do.
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Collection: War
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Someone can have the best intentions,' Markov said, 'but offering the wrong advice, the wrong help at the wrong time, can be worse than not helping at all.
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Collection: Offering
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Being in love with someone who doesn't even know you exist isn't the worst thing in the world. In fact, it's quite the oppostie. Almost like passing in a term paper that you know sucked, but having that period of time where you haven't gotten your grade back yet -- that kind of exhale where you haven't been rejected, although you pretty much know how it's going to turn out.
- Tonya Hurley
Collection: Being In Love
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If you expect nothing, you can never be disappointed.
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Collection: Disappointment
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friends are like stars. You do not see all the time, but you know they are there
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Collection: Friendship
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Now I lay me down to sleep, I pray the Lord my soul to keep. And if I should die before I awake, I pray the popular attend my wake.
- Tonya Hurley
Collection: Death
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Sometimes it's the things that are all around us that are hardest to see, especially love.
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Collection: Sometimes
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If you want sympathy, look for a friend, but if you want honesty, an enemy might be the best friend you ever had.
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Collection: Honesty
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I never understood why you tried so hard to fit in, when you were obviously meant to stand out.
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Collection: Fit
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Talk is cheap. If it wasn't, people might not toss around 'I love you' like a marked-down phrase in a sales bin.
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Collection: Love You
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Just as love blinds us to imperfections in others, it magnifies those we see in ourselves. But if this is true, then the opposite must also be the case. We can take comfort in the fact that our faults will be invisible to those who love us. The success or failure of any relationship depends not just on how we feel about each other, but on how we make each other feel about ourselves.
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Collection: Opposites
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We all want to be stars. The idea of being revered and envied must be encoded somewhere deep in our DNA. So must the desire to revere and envy others we imagine to be better, more accepted, and more popular than we are. The only problem is that the most necessary qualities required to be a celebrity -- self-absorption, egomania, shamelessness -- are the least attractive in a friend.
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Collection: Stars
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Breaking free, or not, is usually determined by whether you want to get somewhere slowly or nowhere fast.
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Collection: Want
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The truth is, those people we feel drawn to most might not be intended as love interests, but rather as life-changing, life-altering presences that come into our lives for reasons we can't yet understand.
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Collection: Life Changing
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If you expect nothing, you can never be disappointed. Apart from a few starry-eyed poets or monks living on a mountaintop somewhere, however, we all have expectations. We not only have them, we need them. They fuel our dreams, our hopes, and our lives like some super-caffeinated energy drink.
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Collection: Dream
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And though the symptons of lovesickness may be many, they all share a single cause and single cure: you.
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Collection: May
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Sometimes divulging your vulnerabilities without any kind of filter can make you more human, but then again, it can also provide material that can be used against you.
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Collection: Filters
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Life sucks, then you die. Then it sucks again.
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Collection: Life Sucks
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You did what your heart told you to do,' Brain complimented. 'It is what leaders, not followers, do.
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Collection: Leadership
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You never think it will happen to you. You think about what it would be like. You go through it over and over in your mind, changing the scenario slightly each time, but deep down, you don't really believe it would ever happen, because it's something that happens to someone else, not to you.
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Collection: Believe
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Worry may not change the outcome, but it definately affects the outlook.
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Collection: Worry
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Issues are like assholes, we've all got one," Pam snipped.
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Collection: Issues
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We don't miss what we never had, but we miss terribly things we almost had. And we miss things we used to have most of all. Through we hope and pray for our relationships, our looks, and our lives to improve, having more also means having more to lose.
- Tonya Hurley
Collection: Mean
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I love you, but i'm not fall in love with you
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Collection: Falling In Love
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Being in love with someone who doesn't even know that you exist isn't the worst thing in the world.
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Collection: Being In Love
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people can die , dreams cant
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Collection: Dream
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It's not the time we spend but how we spend the time that truly tells our story.
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Collection: Stories
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She was a dead girl having the worst panic attack shed ever had. Not because she was afraid of dying, but because she knew that she would never live again.
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Collection: Girl
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I always find that I'm at my best,' Eric said leadingly, 'when I'm at my worst.
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Collection: Eric
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It was like death by a thousand paper cuts.
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Collection: Cutting
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Regret; The saddest word in the English language.
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Collection: Regret