Matthew Weiner
Believe it or not, there's a lot of humor in 'Mad Men.' Especially in the dark moments.Collection: Humor
Identity is part of drama to me. Who am I, why am I behaving this way, and am I aware of it?
I'm in the entertainment business, where you're only as good as your last show.
My wife's an architect, so she definitely has a very high-risk artistic profession, and she gets the idea that you're really sensitive, you really care what people think, you have a low threshold for criticism.
As far as I can tell, 1968 is a year about change, about revolution, about violence, about people turning inwards as community breaks down.
I'm very supportive of creative people being paid for the work that they do.
It's very hard to turn writers against each other, believe it or not.
I am a competitive person. But more good TV is more good TV.
If you've ever had somebody try to sell you something - people who can sell, they really are not manipulating you. They are selling themselves.
This sounds really craven on some level, but on some level, a lot of what I'm doing is trying to not do a typical TV show.
I guess because I'm a liberal I think it's not people's natural instinct to be completely self-interested.
It's an ugly thing to see ambition and to see people satisfying themselves.
I would never want my name on something that I did not write most of. Part of television is you get rewritten.
I had a realization in the midst of my happy marriage that I had kind of lost most of my friends - my male friends in particular. And I started wondering if my wife, who was certainly my best friend, supplanted those relationships.
If you want to reach any kind of poignancy or meaning a lot of times, coming from comedy is the best way to get there.
In movies and TV, we tend to fall into tropes about how characters might get out of problems. But when you look at real life, you realize that there is a lot of drama of not being able to get out of the problems.
TV writing is for people who hate being alone more than they hate writing.Collection: Hate
Hate is more interesting than love.Collection: Hate
The show is not a history lesson or intellectual exploration. It is entertainment based on tension, irony and storytelling that is closely related to today’s life.Collection: Intellectual
The chance to tell personal, language-specific, culturally specific stories is really flourishing on TV and I think it's just the nature of movies and international demands that you need to get a much bigger audience. TV is more like independent film was. The forms of adult drama and certain kinds of sophisticated comedy, there's no room for them in the tentpole movie universe.Collection: Drama
It took seven years from the time I wrote Mad Men until it finally got on the screen. I lived every day with that script as if it were going to happen tomorrow. That’s the faith you have to have.Collection: Men
I'm a different writer now. You don't sit in a room with Sopranos creator David Chase and writer Terence Winter for four years and not learn something. And just watching the way the show was done, and watching the way that David encouraged the imagination.Collection: Winter
My life philosophy and personality has been driven by the fact that I am incapable of really understanding the future, on some level. I am in this moment. I take risks because I really don't think that far ahead.Collection: Philosophy
Seeing movie people trying to get into TV now who don't understand that is very interesting.Collection: People
You don't drink and smoke that much, and womanize that much, unless you really want to be punished, I think.Collection: Thinking
I am a competitive person, but it's so hard to do a show. Anybody who gets to the point where they get their show on the air, I wish them the best. It's too hard. I'd rather waste energy thinking good things on myself.Collection: Thinking
Success has a lot of things that go along with it and I haven't experienced any personal resentment. I can't control any of that and I try not to worry about it. I hope that's not the case, you know. Most of the writers that I know and artists that I know understand what was going on. I think there's just as many things going on in the awards process that have to do with the show having won a few times.Collection: Artist
Opinions can't be inaccurate.Collection: Opinion
You can do a lot with a commercial break - you can change days, you can suggest the passage of time. So sometimes that's a great thing artistically, to know that's going to be there. Obviously you'd always prefer that people see it straight through, and you don't want them to be taken out of it by advertising, but that's the reality of what's paying the bills here.Collection: Taken
I am trying to be as impartial as possible. As you can tell from the trailers for Mad Men, I am a person who believes that you should know nothing.Collection: Believe
That's the miracle of telling a story in film: You can express something inside someone's mind.Collection: Miracle
All human stories are interesting. You don't put a kid in a show because you need a device. They have a story, too.Collection: Kids
My major goal is to take my bathrobe off before the kids get home from school.Collection: Home
Super confident people with no problems and great marriages and great parenting are not good entertainment.Collection: People
I know that telling the story, there are certain events I want to skip, and certain events I want to hit. The time passing allows for - if you're really following people's lives, and this isn't a cartoon - someone gets pregnant, a child will be born, etc. You really don't want to be locked into "Every episode is a month later." The show is very intense to make. There's always going to be some downtime between seasons, and to me, it really helps to come back to the next season in the reality of that world, and have almost as much time passed in their lives as has passed in yours.Collection: Children
Every single word that's on the screen, I oversee. There's nothing that's shot, I'm not involved in. The scripts go through multiple drafts, and I work with the writers on all these things. And I'm extremely involved in the writing process.Collection: Writing
As far as casting, I'm there for every single person that's cast. Even if it's one word, I'm there for their auditions.Collection: Single Person
On the set, I visit the set for a lot of the rehearsals, and there's always a writer on set. And then I'm involved in post-production, very intensely involved in editing, and the sound mix and color timing. Really, I have about nine jobs.Collection: Timing
But you know what, honestly? I'm not that interested in advertising. I think it's a great way... It's such a huge part of our culture. It's like saying, "Are you interested in hair?" It's such a part of our life, and it's such a reflection of how we feel about ourselves, and what we're interested in, and what we want to be.Collection: Reflection
I was never really that worried about being a member of the Sopranos crew. I think it looks kind of fun to not have to work, to not have to take crap from anybody. And then there's the reality check in there, which is that you do have to work, you do have to take crap from people, and you can fail, and all these other things.Collection: Fun
I don't want to pretend like I'm clairvoyant or anything, but I had a tremendous sense of malaise about our political future. This is right around the millennium, right around 1999, when I wrote it. The Sopranos certainly reflected that; when I saw that on the air, I was like "Oh my God, I'm not alone." But it doesn't seem that the culture really caught up with that. George W. Bush won two elections... I'm not even trying to say this from a political standpoint. I think there is a resonance to the kind of glory of that period, and the foreboding of what happened.Collection: Thinking
It's impossible for me, without getting a big wide shot of Manhattan, to convince people that it's another day. But if we go to a commercial and we come up and people are in different clothes, you know it's another day.Collection: People
I think there's a kind of elegance to it, to work within that framework where what you don't see is often more enticing.Collection: Thinking
I have this amazing team that I trust. I completely go with their decisions on things. I don't have to go in and micromanage everything. And I think the other thing is, you start to sort of... I wouldn't say relax, because I've never relaxed. But I've tried to have more confidence in the things I like, or the things other people like. That's really the big thing in this job, to second-guess yourself all the time.Collection: Team
The weirdest thing with friends, the way you measure it is if you go without communicating for months at a time, you can sit down and within five seconds be right where you were. I know it's a cliché, but quality not quantity, and that bond will not disintegrate. It does need to be tended to but it won't go away. It's amazing, though - I'm here in New York where my best friend from college lives, and we see each other twice a year and we're right where we were and a lot of it's unspoken.Collection: College
I do find it sometimes that people project their own feelings on to the characters and I think that there is a certain amount of sexism - I mean the proprietary nature, for men and women.Collection: Character
Who knows where the talent goes? Sometimes it goes where the money is. Sometimes I think writers are really interested in the glory.Collection: Thinking
The other thing - and writers can say whatever they want - is casting. You need to find a person who can inhabit that role, who can not sugarcoat the bad stuff, and not be too hard on the good stuff, but who can come across as a three-dimensional human being with some depth and some thought about what they're doing. When you find James Gandolfini or Jon Hamm, someone who can inhabit this role but still has a natural humanity to them, no matter what they're doing? It's a gift.Collection: Humanity