Joshua Harris
Just because something is good doesn't mean we should pursue it right now. We have to remember that the right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing.Collection: Christian
True love isn't expressed in passionately whispered words an intimate kiss or a embrace; before two people are married, love is expressed in self-control, patience, even words left unsaid.Collection: True Love
When you let God be God you can let humans be humans. When we place God in His rightful place in our lives, we don't struggle so much when human relationships let us down.Collection: Struggle
Our hearts lie. Something can 'feel' right and be completely wrong.Collection: Lying
Don’t concern yourself with being right in others’ eyes. And don’t secretly hope that their lives will fall apart so that your opinion will be vindicated. Instead, concentrate on obeying God in your own life and, when possible, helping others to obey Him as well. You don’t have to prove others wrong to continue on the course you know God has shown you.Collection: Life
Every relationship for a Christian is an opportunity to love another person like God has loved us. To lay down our desires and do what's in his or her best interest. To care for him or her even when there's nothing in it for us. To want that person's purity and holiness because it pleases God and protects him or her.Collection: Christian
The world takes us to a silver screen on which flickering images of passion and romance play, and as we watch, the world says, “This is love.” God takes us to the foot of a tree on which a naked and bloodied man hangs and says, “This is love.Collection: Christian
When God knows you're ready for the responsibility of commitment, He'll reveal the right person under the right circumstances.Collection: Relationship
But remember, continuing a wrong relationship only increases the pain when it finally does end.Collection: Pain
Having a girlfriend was no longer my greatest need. Knowing and obeying Him was . I wanted to please Him in my relationships even if it meant looking radical and foolish to other people - even if it meant kissing dating goodbye.Collection: Goodbye
True purity, however, is a direction, a persistent, determined pursuit of righteousness. This direction starts in the heart, and we express it in a lifestyle that flees opportunities for compromise.Collection: Heart
Purity doesn't happen by accident; it requires obedience to God.Collection: Purity
I won't stick around to see how much temptation I can take. God is not impressed with my ability to stand up to sin. He is more impressed by the obedience I show when I run from it.Collection: Running
I'm not saying dating is sinful, and I'm not saying a guy and a girl should never spend time alone together. I'm saying let's wait until we can be purposeful, so there's a reason behind our relationship, and we're not just stirring up passion for the sake of a good time.Collection: Girl
The most romantic things a man can do for a woman are the little things that let her know that she's on his mind and in his heart.Collection: Boyfriend
Lord, help me to appreciate this woman/man without elevating her/him above you in my heart. Help me to remember that nobody can ever take your place in my life. You are my strength, my hope, my joy, and my ultimate reward. Bring me back to reality, God. Give me an undivided heart.Collection: Heart
When we define our happiness by some point in the future, it will never arrive. We'll keep waiting until tomorrow. If we allow impatience to govern us, we will miss the gift of the moment. We'll arrive at that point in time we expected to provide fulfillment and find it lacking.Collection: Waiting
Living to glorify God means doing everything... for Him, His way, to point to His greatness and to reflect His goodness.Collection: Mean
What we say we believe makes very little difference until we act on our beliefCollection: Believe
Many couples have made commitments to sexual purity, but instead of adopting a lifestyle that supports this commitment, they continue relationships that encourage physical expression and place themselves in dangerous settings. The path you take with your feet should never contradict the conviction of your heart.Collection: Couple
If you ant to feel deeply, you have to think deeply. Too often we separate the two. We assume that if we want to feel deeply, then we need to sit around and, well, feel. But emotion built on emotion is empty. True emotion- emotion that is reliable and does not lead us astray- is always a response to reality, to truth.Collection: Reality
If you're not ready to consider marriage or you're not truly interested in marrying a specific person, it's selfish and potentially harmful to encourage that person to need you or ask him or her to gratify you emotionally or physically.Collection: Selfish
Women need to remember that if nature has made them plain, grace can make them beautiful, and if nature has made them beautiful, good deeds can add to their beauty. Grace will make you beautiful and will attract truly godly men to you. Make godliness and inward beauty your priority.Collection: Beautiful
Intimacy without commitment, like icing without cake, can be sweet, but it ends up making us sick.Collection: Love
Wisdom in relationships involves a selfless desire to do what's best for the other person.Collection: Desire
During courtship, guarding each other's purity and refraining from intimacy are the acts of lovemaking.Collection: Guarding
I'm looking for someone who will light candles, not just curse the darkness.Collection: Light
Just because lips have met doesn't mean hearts have joined. And just because two bodies are drawn to each other doesn't mean two people are right for each other. A physical relationship does not equal love.Collection: Heart
Terms don't define our lives; our lives define our terms.Collection: Term
The doctrine of Scripture teaches us about the authority of God's Word. Scripture must be the final rule of faith and practice for our lives. Not our feelings or emotions. Not signs or prophetic words or hunches.Collection: Practice
The joy of intimacy is the reward of commitment.Collection: Commitment
Every relationship for a Christian is an opportunity to love another person like God has loved us.Collection: Christian
Dating now is a lot like going shopping when you don't have any money. Even if you find the right thing, you can't do anything about it.Collection: Shopping
The thing about relationships is, when you are in the middle of one, they consume your focus.Collection: Focus
When you dress and behave in a way that is designed primarily to arouse sexual desire in men, you are committing pornography with your life.Collection: Men
One of my defining beliefs is that Jesus Christ has taken all of my guilt before God, and that he has been raised from the dead. That gives incredible hope and meaning to every day of my life - that nothing done in this world is wasted when it's done for him and his glory, and that there will be a day of justice and reward for the entire world.Collection: Jesus
God gave people 2 ears and 1 mouth because He wants us to listen twice as much as we talk.Collection: People
We can each rest in the knowledge that God is sovereign over our life's situation. No matter where we are today or what mistakes we've made in the past, He has given us everything we need to glorify Him right now.Collection: Mistake
You get up and you preach a sermon and people walk away thinking what a great guy - and that's a failure as a pastor. Our job is to proclaim Christ.Collection: Jobs
We express true love in obedience to God and service to others- not reckless or selfish behavior- and we choose these behaviors.Collection: Selfish
We want to stay on the straight and narrow path and serve God, yet we continue a practice that often pulls us in the wrong direction.Collection: Practice
The common error today is to bring God so close that we strip Him of His "godness." We think we have him figured out. So God becomes our pal, our buddy, our Divine Butler." from "Dug Down DeepCollection: Thinking
If you want to grow, find men who provoke you.Collection: Men
Romance says, ' I want it now!'. Wisdom urges patienceCollection: Romance
The right thing at the wrong tme is the wrong thing.Collection: Wrong Things
The technology for a clothing printer exists but is not packaged in a form that would be suitable for consumer use. With the future potential of printing technology, an at-home clothing printer is a definite possibility. Our challenge was to define the experience.Collection: Home
I've come to see that you can limit God is different ways. You can limit Him by thinking he can never work in spectacular ways. But you can also limit Him by thinking that only the spectacular is meaningful." - from "Dug Down DeepCollection: Meaningful