A taste for irony has kept more hearts from breaking than a sense of humor, for it takes irony to appreciate the joke which is on oneself.Collection: Humor
The past is really almost as much a work of the imagination as the future.Collection: History
Faithfulness to the past can be a kind of death above ground. Writing of the past is a resurrection; the past then lives in your words and you are free.Collection: Death
There are two barriers that often prevent communication between the young and their elders. The first is middle-aged forgetfulness of the fact that they themselves are no longer young. The second is youthful ignorance of the fact that the middle aged are still alive.Collection: Communication
In their sympathies, children feel nearer animals than adults.Collection: Sympathy
A broken bone can heal, but the wound a word opens can fester forever.Collection: Anger
It is very east to forgive others their mistakes; it takes more grit and gumption to forgive them for having witnessed your own.Collection: Forgiveness
Fiction reveals truths that reality obscures.Collection: Imagination
We want the facts to fit the preconceptions. When they don't it is easier to ignore the facts than to change the preconceptions.
The West is color. Its colors are animal rather than vegetable, the colors of earth and sunlight and ripeness.
You read a book from beginning to end. You run a business the opposite way. You start with the end, and then you do everything you must to reach it.
Writing is a solitary occupation. Family, friends, and society are the natural enemies of the writer. He must be alone, uninterrupted, and slightly savage if he is to sustain and complete an undertaking.
If you train people properly, they won't be able to tell a drill from the real thing. If anything, the real thing will be easier.
The sick soon come to understand that they live in a different world from that of the well and that the two cannot communicate.
Only a fool would refuse to enter a fool's paradise when that's the only paradise he'll ever have a chance to enter.
In my time and neighborhood (and in my soul) there was only one standard by which a woman measured success: did some man want her?
You make what seems a simple choice: choose a man or a job or a neighborhood- and what you have chosen is not a man or a job or a neighborhood, but a life.Collection: Jobs
Somehow I have the feeling that in some book is the great treasure I've been looking for all my life.Collection: Book
One can write out of love or hate. Hate tells one a great deal about a person. Love makes one become the person. Love, contrary to legend, is not half as blind, at least for writing purposes, as hate. Love can see the evil and not cease to be love. Hate cannot see the good and remain hate. The writer, writing out of hatred, will, thus, paint a far more partial picture than if he had written out of love.Collection: Hate
Writing is so difficult that I feel that writers, having had their hell on earth, will escape all punishment hereafter.Collection: Writing
I am always jumping into the sausage grinder and deciding, even before I’m half ground, that I don’t want to be a sausage after all.Collection: Jumping
It is very easy to forgive others their mistakes; it takes more grit and gumption to forgive them for having witnessed your own.Collection: Forgiveness
A good time for laughing is when you can.Collection: Inspirational
There is no royal path to good writing; and such paths as exist do not lead through neat critical gardens, various as they are, but through the jungles of self, the world, and of craft.Collection: Writing
Each death and departure comes to us as a surprise, a sorrow never anticipated. Life is a long series of farewells; only the circumstances should surprise us.Collection: Farewell
The conversation of two people remembering, if the memory is enjoyable to both, rocks on like music or lovemaking. There is a rhythm and a predictability to it that each anticipates and relishes.Collection: Memories
In their sympathies, children feel nearer animals than adults. They frolic with animals, caress them, share with them feelings neither has words for. Have they ever stroked any adult with the love they bestow on a cat? Hugged any grownup with the ecstasy they feel when clasping a puppy?Collection: Children
To meet at all, one must open ones eyes to another; and there is no true conversation no matter how many words are spoken, unless the eye, unveiled and listening, opens itself to the other.Collection: Inspirational
People who keep journals have life twiceCollection: Motivational
At fourteen you don't need sickness or death for tragedy.Collection: Inspirational
In their sympathies, children feel nearer animals than adultsCollection: Children
It is the loving, not the loved, woman who feels loveable.Collection: Feels
Knowledge of what you love somehow comes to you; you don’t have to read nor analyze nor study. If you love a thing enough, knowledge of it seeps into you, with particulars more real than any chart can furnish.Collection: Real
The emotion, the ecstasy of love, we all want, but God spare us the responsibility.Collection: Responsibility
Being consistent meant not departing from convictions already formulated; being a leader meant making other persons accept these convictions. It was a narrow track, and a one-way, but a person might travel a considerable distance on it. A number of dictators have.Collection: Leadership