I'm like the kid in kindergarten; I really do send valentines to everyone.Collection: Valentines
I think that you have to do everything you can do to empower girls when they are young, from their education, to their successful independence, to their sexual self-knowledge.Collection: Independence
I had no idea that mothering my own child would be so healing to my own sadness from my childhood.Collection: Parenting
I'm a Mommy's Girl - the strongest influence in my young life was my mom.Collection: Mom
I see the effects of sexual and gender liberation all around me, just like you do, but I don't have a sense of being in the majority.
There is more criticism of puritanism, and more distance from Christian morality, than there has been before.
I had a hard time publishing my books in the beginning of my career, because editors were afraid what people would think of THEM, personally, if their name was associated with me.
Doing the right thing for someone else was like a tonic for me; it was like some magic ointment that made a wound disappear.
Human beings like variety, and they also like partnership... these are scientific values we can point to.
I got more and more politically active and just followed the course of feminism and sexual liberation.
So that would be a classic mixed message to young women: you should look a certain way that's going to destroy your reproductive system and your sexual appetite, but at the same time, you should be interested in sex!
Now I have to have the biggest P.O. box in the entire post office to get all the manuscripts coming in.
Finding people who get enormous pleasure from reading books is a more and more unusual experience, and so writers just so much want to be heard.
"Natural" is a very dangerous word to use about sexuality ... Our society's notions of normality are completely fake and meta-trendy, since they rely on the changing standards of superstition, religion, Christianity and gender bias to define themselves. Americans, in particular, exhibit very childish reactions to sexual practices that are new to them, much like little kids who are offered a vegetable they haven't seen before: "That's disgusting!" "But darling, you haven't even tried it!" "I don't care, I hate it, I hate it!Collection: Hate
Behind every erotic condemnation there's a burning hypocrite.Collection: Hypocrite
Many Americans who are not fastened at the temples to a Christian prayer book are offended by politicians who justify their decisions by piously quoting the Old Testament.Collection: Christian
Photographs have always been the tar baby of censors and obscenity laws. Literature can certainly (if it's any good) conjure up the most pornographic imagination. But photographs dare to be real. No matter how contrived or constructed they are, there's that damn body staring you in the face.Collection: Baby
You have to calendar time for yourself even if you have no idea what youre going to do with it.Collection: Ideas
Keeping people neurotic and depressed and ignorant and self-doubting is oppressive.Collection: Self
Seeing lesbian photography is just the tip of my radicalized clitoris. I have modeled for, commissioned, published, and fought for these pictures, and answered threats against them. I've seen the feminist movement bring these pictures to life, and I've seen that same movement try to suppress the liberating results.Collection: Photography
I got more and more politically active and just followed the course of feminism and sexual liberationCollection: Feminist
Human beings like variety, and they also like partnership . . . these are scientific values we can point to.Collection: Partnership
I got introduced to audiobooks because of having a babyCollection: Baby
When AIDS was at its most brutal, frightening, my-God-what-are-we-going-to-do era, that was when vampire stories and stories about blood and trust swept the literary world.Collection: Blood
Doing the right thing for someone else was like a tonic for me; it was like some magic ointment that made a wound disappearCollection: Magic
Everyone wants to be a dyke now; everyone craves our freedom, guts, and knowing looks.Collection: Knowing
I had a hard time publishing my books in the beginning of my career, because editors were afraid what people would think of THEM, personally, if their name was associated with meCollection: Book
In fact, I think for a lot of writers, it’s so hard to be read.Collection: Reading