I was a workaholic. I never stopped. I lived in fifth gear. I bought cars. I invested in stocks. I made more money than I had ever imagined.Collection: Car
I find interesting characters or lessons that resonate with people and sometimes I write about them in the sports pages, sometimes I write them in a column, sometimes in a novel, sometimes a play or sometimes in nonfiction. But at the core I always say to myself, 'Is there a story here? Is this something people want to read?'Collection: Sports
I used to be a classic workaholic, and after seeing how little work and career really mean when you reach the end of your life, I put a new emphasis on things I believe count more. These things include: family, friends, being part of a community, and appreciating the little joys of the average day.Collection: Family
The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning.
A memoir should have some uplifting quality, inspiring or illuminating, and that's what separates a life story that can influence other people.
If you're always battling against getting older, you're always going to be unhappy, because it's going to happen anyhow.
Anyone who tries to write a memoir needs to keep in mind that what's interesting to you isn't necessarily interesting to a reader.
People are only mean when they're threatened, and that's what our culture does. That's what our economy does.
I believe that you live on inside the hearts and minds of everyone you've touched while you were here on earth.
We all lose somebody we care about and want to find some comforting way of dealing with it, something that will give us a little closure, a little peace.
I don't know about Heaven or Hell, but I do know that we are visited all the time by the spirits of those who affected us in life.
For better or for worse, I've watched people die in front of me. I see how they are in the end. And they're not cynical. In the end, they wanna hold somebody's hand. And that's real to me.
Detroit is a place where we've had it pretty tough. But there is a generosity here and a well of kindness that goes deep.
If you really could fit God in a file, you wouldn't need to believe in God, you know, you'd just go get the file like a box of corn flakes off the shelf.
Nobody's favorite movie is some dark, dysfunctional slasher story. Everybody's favorite song is a sentimental song. So why all of a sudden is it bad to be sentimental in books?
In a newspaper, you only have so much room. It teaches you the value of getting to the point, of not pampering yourself with your glorious writing. I've always been much more interested in one powerful sentence that stays with you. That's my style.
Mortality means you don't have forever to work things out. You can live your life unexamined but then on the last day you're going to think: 'I've left things a little late.'
For years I wrote in my basement. More recently I graduated to one floor above, an office with all my books and music and - ta da! - a window.
Whenever you have two characters in a book, whether it's a novel or nonfiction, you run the risk that the reader is going to like one more than the other. They're going to read one chapter and say, 'I can't wait to get back to the other guy.'
I believe the biggest themes of life are put into the best focus when held up against the very sharp light of mortality.
Nothing haunts us like the things we don't say.Collection: Fearless
When someone is in your heart, they're never truly gone. They can come back to you, even at unlikely times.Collection: Love
We all yearn for what we have lost. But sometimes, we forget what we have.Collection: Sometimes
All endings are also beginnings. We just don't know it at the time.Collection: Hard Times
Accept who you are; and revel in it.Collection: Confidence
There are two stories for every life; the one you live & the one others tellCollection: Two
What you have done to this point cannot be undone. What you do next... It is still unwritten.Collection: Done
We need to forgive ourselves. For all the things we didn't do. All the things we should have done. You can't get stuck on the regrets of what should have happened.Collection: Regret
This is part of what a family is about, not just love. It's knowing that your family will be there watching out for you. Nothing else will give you that. Not money. Not fame. Not work.Collection: Family
There is no such thing as 'too late' in life.Collection: Life
Every life has one true love snapshot.Collection: Snapshots
Parents rarely let go of their children, so children let go of them. They move on. They move away. The moments that used to define them - a mother's approval, a father's nod - are covered by moments of their own accomplishments. It is not until much later, as the skin sags and the heart weakens, that children understand; their stories, and all their accomplishments, sit atop the stories of their mothers and fathers, stones upon stones, beneath the waters of their lives.Collection: Letting Go
The universe is too grand and harmonious to believe it's all an accident.Collection: Believe