I think growing up is difficult and it's a process that I'm always interested in, with kids and adults, they are often on two different universes.Collection: Teen
I feel more influenced in my own work by dreams than I do by other writers' works in a way. Or by popular culture, movies - what else is there to write about than love and loss?Collection: Dreams
All the characters in my books are imagined, but all have a bit of who I am in them - much like the characters in your dreams are all formed by who you are.Collection: Dreams
Mothers always find ways to fit in the work - but then when you're working, you feel that you should be spending time with your children and then when you're with your children, you're thinking about working.Collection: Mom
After a while, the characters I'm writing begin to feel real to me. That's when I know I'm heading in the right direction.
The original fairy tale was about the youngest sister going into a room in the castle and finding all the bodies of the wives that came before her - she is confronted with truth, thinking about how often we think we know people and we really don't.
Among men and women, those in love do not always announce themselves with declarations and vows. But they are the ones who weep when you're gone. Who miss you every single night, especially when the sky is so deep and beautiful, and the ground so very cold.
Hawthorne has given us a tradition that some people refer to as Yankee Magic Realism, and I do think there is a certain quality to the landscape that definitely leads into the dark woods.
Any institution becomes a community - whether it's a high school or a boarding school or a publishing company or a small town where everybody knows certain things about people.
Even in times when it's difficult to figure out, how do you go forward, art - and books - always help.
Every time I finish a book, I forget everything I learned writing it - the information just disappears out of my head.
I also like the whole idea of fairy tales and folk tales being a woman's domain, considered a lesser domain at the time they were told.
I always felt and still feel that fairy tales have an emotional truth that is so deep that there are few things that really rival them.
I did go there later, but I hadn't been there before I wrote the book. Sometimes I feel like the imagined can feel more real than the real?
I don't really read as much as I used to. A lot of what I was looking for as an escape I find in writing. And the other thing is that I don't want to get into someone else's language when I'm working.
I don't think I make much of a distinction between the 'real' and the 'fantastic.' They both seem to be threads in the same cloth as far as I'm concerned.
I never plot out my novels in terms of the tone of the book. Hopefully, once a story is begun it reveals itself.
I never see a novel as a film while I'm writing it. Mostly because novels and films are so different, and I'm such an internal novelist.
I really feel like the gift is also the curse. It's always half-and-half. Whatever brings you the most joy will also probably bring you the most pain. Always a price to pay.
I think love is a huge factor in fiction and in real life. Is there a risk? Always. In fiction and in life.
I think secrets often come out. I spoke to a friend who is a therapist and I asked her if there were people who came to her and admitted to doing horrible things and she said, 'More than you know.'
I think we are bound to, and by, nature. We may want to deny this connection and try to believe we control the external world, but every time there's a snowstorm or drought, we know our fate is tied to the world around us.
I'm much faster now. When you only have a certain amount of time to write, after a while you learn to use your time well or you stop writing.
I've been a screenwriter for twenty-five years. Every one of my books have been optioned for movies and I have written a few of those screenplays.
Ironically, now that my children are older and gone quite a bit, I find it harder to work when they're not around. Too much free time!
It was a great escape for me and it was a way to take a break from what was going on in my own world, to go into another world.
The adults don't know what's happening on the kids' universe and the kids don't know what's happening on the adults' universe.
They were written on cheap blue notebooks bought by poor women. I'm interested in folk tales in the way that medicine and magic in women's stories are all kind of combined.
You can try to take sorrow and make it into something enduring, meaningful and beautiful. I always feel guilty that this is my job, that I get to do this.
Just because something is unspoken doesn't mean that it disappears.Collection: Mean
No barrier was strong enough to keep out the movement of time.Collection: Strong
Pride is a funny thing; it can make what is truly worthless appear to be a treasure.Collection: Pride
It's not finding what's lost, it's understanding what you've found.Collection: Understanding
You are only worthy of what you prove yourself to be.Collection: Worthy
Do what you want, do what you will, do what you have to, do what you think you cannot.Collection: Thinking
Every problem has a solution, although it may not be the outcome that was originally hoped for or expected.Collection: Inspirational
You have to choose the voice you are going to trust. You can't listen to everyone.Collection: Voice
The weak are cruel. The strong have no need to be.Collection: Strong
Once you know some things, you can't unknow them. It's a burden that can never be given away.Collection: Burden
Do you ever just put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that's what love is like; everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but for some reason you just keep going.Collection: Fall
Some people say, 'Save yourself and you save your ways.' I say, 'Be yourself and you save your soul.Collection: Being Yourself
Sometimes, running away means you're headed in the exact right direction.Collection: Running
Love is worth the sum of itself, and nothing more.Collection: Love Is
You can't dispute the ridiculous. You can't argue reasonably with evil.Collection: Evil