I'm not just a doormat. I'm not just being stepped on all over the place. If you look at the bulk of my material, it's about trying to find some strength through that.Collection: Strength
Some of their best songs don't have bridges and choruses. So that made me think I should trust my instincts. My songs were okay, I figured. I didn't need to change anything.Collection: Trust
Just because I'm talking about something that might have been a sad or painful situation doesn't mean that I'm sad or tortured 24 hours a day any more than anybody else is.Collection: Sad
People let their own hang-ups become the obstacles between them and personal happiness.Collection: Happiness
I grew up in a very literate, very independent household where people spoke their ideas and were very supportive of helping each other find their own way.
I'm fascinated by the whole concept of snake handling. When you read about the Pentecostal snake handlers, what strikes you the most is their commitment.
You should put time into learning your craft. It seems like people want success so quickly, way before they're ready.
If you come into success too soon, you'll burn out and be finished before you know it. If you let the maturation process happen naturally, you'll be happier with yourself in the end.
The old jazz singers or old blues singers, you always just saw them kind of sitting down and singing. They weren't worried as much about their voice sounding perfect. They would make the song kind of fit their voice.
Sade's stuff is real deceptive. She's got stuff about prostitutes, poverty and people on the streets.
I've had trouble being in relationships and writing. This has been a real problem for me. I don't know if it's because I'm not free to fantasize or create these fantasy things about other people.
The man I lived with is a Christian, so I would talk to him about it. What would this person do in the Bible? What's the story around this person? Generally, when people talk about characters in the Bible, there's one thing they're known for, like Job.
In so many interviews, they bring up the sexual aspect of the record. I've had some journalists say it sounds like I'm lying down in bed singing with a microphone. It gets so old!
I feel a lot more comfortable being me these days. I'm constantly told that my work is good. A lot of fans and a lot of other artists say my songs and albums mean a lot to them. Isn't that what's important?
I guess you could write a good song if your heart hadn't been broken, but I don't know of anyone whose heart hasn't been broken.
It's really about living in your head... just looking out at the world, then going back into your head and tossing around a lot of ideas and coming out with something interesting to say.
I'm always coming up with ideas that have been inspired by memories, everyday life and this and that and the other.
Sometimes I might borrow something from a song I started a long time ago and see if I can grab something.
First thing, I throw on some jeans, a T-shirt and my Keds sneakers and make coffee. That is actually my favorite time of day. That is when I do my songwriting, when I am in writing mode.
My approach to recording and all that is pretty organic. It just has to do with all the songs I wrote; go in and record them.
I write the songs, go in and record them, then I listen to everything and decide how it all fits together.
The way I look at life, whatever I'm doing at that time in my life is going to be reflected in my songs, for the most part.
Of course, I'm older now. I'm in a different place in my life than when I wrote the songs for 'Car Wheels' or 'Essence' or whatever. Different things were going on.
I have a folder of scraps and pieces of paper with stuff, ideas for songs from the last 25 years; just little things, maybe early songs that I finished, but didn't think they were good enough.
I can speak for most songwriters - those breakup love songs are so easy to write, as far as the inspiration and all that.
I started writing songs, I guess, when I was about 13 or 14, but I didn't know if they were good enough yet or anything.