John Eldredge
Men want a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue. That is what is written in their hearts. That is what little boys play at. That is what men's movies are about. You just see it. It is undeniable.Collection: Movies
It takes great courage to be vulnerable. It takes enormous strength to be a real woman.Collection: Courage
Where a man's strength and courage is tested most is in the way that he treats women - the way that he loves.Collection: Strength
Just like sunshine affects others, when the life of Jesus invades your life, you become a loving person. The effect on others is amazing.Collection: Amazing
We have a Father, and He cares about our internal world - issues of motive, issues of fear, issues of validation.Collection: Fear
There are a lot of good men out there who just need a little direction and leadership in order for them to offer what they have to young men and boys.Collection: Leadership
We don't live in the Garden. We live far from Eden. Every life is full of heartaches. Every life, frankly, is unspeakably sad.Collection: Sad
I wasn't looking for religion; I was looking for a world view.Collection: Religion
Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself, 'What makes me come alive?' Because what the world - a wife, a child - needs is men who have come alive.
Falling in love with God is the most important thing a person can do.
Most of us live in a fog. It's like life is a movie we arrived to 20 minutes late. You know something important seems to be going on. But we can't figure out the story. We don't know what part we're supposed to play or what the plot is.
Validation comes to us in two ways: through trials we overcome, and through the words of older men.
A woman wants to be romanced. She wants to be an essential part of a great adventure; she wants a beauty to unveil. That is what little girls play at, and those are the movies women love and the stories that they love.
It was men who stopped slavery. It was men who ran up the stairs in the Twin Towers to rescue people. It was men who gave up their seats on the lifeboats of the Titanic. Men are made to take risks and live passionately on behalf of others.
The guy who sits in front of the television is unengaged. That man is a bad man.
The early Celtic Christians called the Holy Spirit 'the wild goose.' And the reason why is they knew that you cannot tame him.
Most Christians are still living with an Old Testament view of their heart. Jeremiah 17:9 says, 'My heart is deceitfully wicked.' No, it's not. Not after the work of Christ, because the promise of the new covenant is a new heart.
You get guys around a campfire, and they start telling their stories. That's the fellowship that they want to be in.
When a woman forsakes her vulnerability because she's been hurt or because she lives in a dangerous world or doesn't want to be used, she loses something essential about being a woman.
I started working at Focus on the Family doing debates and media and cultural studies.
The scripture is filled with examples of genuine masculinity; you could mine David's story for probably a year by itself. And we have to get the masculinity of Jesus back. Not the pale-faced altar boy, but the man that made a weapon and cleared the temple, who boldly cast out demons and calmed the raging sea.
I'm married. I have three children. I have a mortgage to pay. The plumbing breaks and the yard needs trimming. However, what my wife and children need most from me is my passion for them.
In ancient African cultures, a young man was not considered a full member of the tribe, an elder, a man. He couldn't marry and he couldn't own land until he had killed a lion. It was symbolic.
Christianity has basically communicated to men that the reason God put you on this Earth is to be a good boy. Mind your manners, be a nice guy. That's soul killing!
To be in theater you have to be a kind of psychologist, for you're always trying to understand character and motives.
What strikes me about Jesus is that he is a remarkably true person; he never changes his personality to fit in with whatever crowd he finds himself. He is simply himself, and he never plays to his audience.
If only Jesus' followers shared his personality. That one shift alone would correct so many of the ridiculous and horrifying things that pass for popular Christianity.
Reading the Gospels, without the personality of Jesus, is like watching television with the sound turned off.
I don't write anything that I haven't lived. In terms of integrity, you have to write what you live. And if you write beyond what you live, it is theory. And theory is not helpful. It is just not.
I have a call to speak, to write, to do sort of deep-heart surgery in people's lives.
It was only after 20 years of being dunked in the religious culture that I got caught up in 'religion.' I had no exposure to Christianity as a child. I was not raised in a Christian home. I became spiritually hungry in high school.
We've made elevator music of Jesus Christ. We've made Him the most boring, bland, blah person; and He was the most revolutionary man.
You know the phrase 'Jesus laughed' isn't ever used in the Gospels. So, most people walk away with the idea that Jesus is a pretty serious guy, pretty sour faced most of the time, pretty upset at what's going on around Him.
The more that you come to know Jesus for who He really is, loving Him is not a problem.
We're told that you can have a relationship with Jesus, but most Christians don't experience Jesus personally like that. They just don't. We honor Him. We respect Him. We worship Him. We don't experience Him and His personality like we do the people we love the most in our lives.
It takes enormous strength to be a real woman.
'Wild at Heart' created a set of expectations maybe, partly, on my part, certainly on my publisher's part, but also in the world out there, that my next books would be as remarkable.
'Wild at Heart' simply came out of my journey as a man and then my work with men.
For the most part, boys are very physical. It's not enough for them to be told they have what it takes and they have greatness. They have to discover for themselves. We learn by doing. The doing has to be somewhat physical.
Whatever their age, most men have never received true fathering.
The modern era has brought up immense conveniences but at what price. The human heart is desperate for something more than a quicker serving of popcorn.
The story of your life is the story of the long and brutal assault on your heart by the one who knows what you could be and fears it.Collection: Life
Deep in his heart, every man longs for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.Collection: Heart
Security is not found in the absence of danger, but in the presence of Jesus.Collection: Jesus
A wound that goes unacknowledged and unwept is a wound that cannot heal.Collection: Healing
The true story of every person in this world is not the story you see, the external story. The true story of each person is the journey of his or her heart.Collection: Heart
Faith looks back and draws courage; hope looks ahead, and keeps desire alive.Collection: Desire
Adventure, with all its requisite danger and wildness, is a deeply spiritual longing written into the soul of man.Collection: Spiritual
To find God, you must look with all your heart. To remain present to God, you must remain present to your heart. To hear his voice, you must listen with all your heart. To love him, you must love with all your heart. You cannot be the person God meant you to be, and you cannot live the life he meant you to live, unless you live from the heart.Collection: Live Life