The truth is that love smashes into your life like an ice floe, and even if your heart is built like the Titanic you go down.Collection: Love
I live alone, with cats, books, pictures, fresh vegetables to cook, the garden, the hens to feed.Collection: Pet
I believe in communication; books communicate ideas and make bridges between people.Collection: Communication
Anything outside marriage seems like freedom and excitement.Collection: Marriage
Confidence and superiority: It's the usual fundamentalist stuff: I've got the truth, and you haven't.
Writers have to have a knack for listening. I need to be able to hear what is being said to me by the voices I create.
London is a small place, and it is very incestuous. People know where you live. Everybody is sort of on top of each other.
One room is always enough for one person. Two rooms is not enough for two people. That is one of the conundrums in life.
They say that every snowflake is different. If that were true, how could the world go on? How could we ever get up off our knees? How could we ever recover from the wonder of it?
However it is debased or misinterpreted, love is a redemptive feature. To focus on one individual so that their desires become superior to yours is a very cleansing experience.
Your weak point is the open, vulnerable place where you can always be hurt. Love, in all its aspects, opens the self so fully.
With animal behavior, they're all fine until you introduce some rogue element into the cage, and then they go crazy.
When it is time to get to work, I go away completely and don't do anything except the work. And that can be 16 hours a day.
Whatever is powerful to you can be translated into something which will matter to somebody that you will never know.
The work that lasts over time is the work which still speaks to us when all contemporary interest in that work is extinct.
Quest is at the heart of what I do-the holy grail, and the terror that you'll never find it, seemed a perfect metaphor for life.
Ordinary professionalism and 20 years' experience can accomplish a lot, but it can't access the hidden places.
I wanted to invent myself as a fictional character. And I did, and it has caused a great deal of confusion.
I think heterosexuality and homosexuality are a kind of psychosis, and the truth is somewhere in the middle.
I never wanted children. If I'd been deeply in love with a man and he'd wanted children, it would have been difficult.
I like to look at how people work together when they are put into stressful situations, when life stops being cozy.