Anne Morrow Lindbergh
The punctuation of anniversaries is terrible, like the closing of doors, one after another between you and what you want to hold on to.Collection: Anniversary
I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness and the willingness to remain vulnerable.Collection: Alone
Life is a gift, given in trust - like a child.Collection: Trust
When the wedding march sounds the resolute approach, the clock no longer ticks, it tolls the hour. The figures in the aisle are no longer individuals, they symbolize the human race.Collection: Wedding
Arranging a bowl of flowers in the morning can give a sense of quiet in a crowded day - like writing a poem or saying a prayer.Collection: Morning
Grief can't be shared. Everyone carries it alone. His own burden in his own way.Collection: Sympathy
Don't wish me happiness - I don't expect to be happy it's gotten beyond that, somehow. Wish me courage and strength and a sense of humor - I will need them all.Collection: Happiness
The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what it was, nor forward to what it might be, but living in the present and accepting it as it is now.Collection: Relationship
What a circus act we women perform every day of our lives. Look at us. We run a tightrope daily, balancing a pile of books on the head. Baby-carriage, parasol, kitchen chair, still under control. Steady now! This is not the life of simplicity but the life of multiplicity that the wise men warn us of.Collection: Women
The most exhausting thing in life is being insincere.Collection: Life
For happiness one needs security, but joy can spring like a flower even from the cliffs of despair.Collection: Happiness
Men kick friendship around like a football, but it doesn't seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it goes to pieces.Collection: Friendship
Good communication is just as stimulating as black coffee, and just as hard to sleep after.Collection: Good
It takes as much courage to have tried and failed as it does to have tried and succeeded.Collection: Courage
Those fields of daisies we landed on, and dusty fields and desert stretches. Memories of many skies and earths beneath us - many days, many nights of stars.Collection: Romantic
I have been overcome by the beauty and richness of our life together, those early mornings setting out, those evenings gleaming with rivers and lakes below us, still holding the last light.Collection: Beauty
It is only in solitude that I ever find my own core.
One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach. One can collect only a few, and they are more beautiful if they are few.
To give without any reward, or any notice, has a special quality of its own.
If you surrender completely to the moments as they pass, you live more richly those moments.
The sea does not reward those who are too anxious, too greedy, or too impatient. One should lie empty, open, choiceless as a beach - waiting for a gift from the sea.
Only in growth, reform, and change, paradoxically enough, is true security to be found.
I feel we are all islands - in a common sea.
How hard it is to have the beautiful interdependence of marriage and yet be strong in oneself alone.
There are no signposts in the sky to show a man has passed that way before. There are no channels marked. The flier breaks each second into new uncharted seas.
One can never pay in gratitude; one can only pay 'in kind' somewhere else in life.
The wave of the future is coming and there is no fighting it.
To be deeply in love is, of course, a great liberating force.
How one hates to think of oneself as alone. How one avoids it. It seems to imply rejection or unpopularity.
The loneliness you get by the sea is personal and alive. It doesn't subdue you and make you feel abject. It's stimulating loneliness.
America, which has the most glorious present still existing in the world today, hardly stops to enjoy it, in her insatiable appetite for the future.
Perhaps this is the most important thing for me to take back from beach-living: simply the memory that each cycle of the tide is valid; each cycle of the wave is valid; each cycle of a relationship is valid.
I must write it all out, at any cost. Writing is thinking. It is more than living, for it is being conscious of living.
Certain springs are tapped only when we are alone. Women need solitude in order to find again the true essence of themselves; that firm strand which will be the indispensable center of a whole web of human relationships.
After all, I don't see why I am always asking for private, individual, selfish miracles when every year there are miracles like white dogwood.
Travelers are always discoverers, especially those who travel by air. There are no signposts in the sky to show a man has passed that way before. There are no channels marked. The flier breaks each second into new uncharted seas.
By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class.
For sleep, one needs endless depths of blackness to sink into; daylight is too shallow, it will not cover one.
I believe that what woman resents is not so much giving herself in pieces as giving herself purposelessly.
The bearing, rearing, feeding and educating of children; the running of a house with its thousand details; human relationships with their myriad pulls - women's normal occupations in general run counter to creative life, or contemplative life, or saintly life.
Only love can be divided endlessly and still not diminish.Collection: Love
I want first of all - in fact, as an end to these other desires - to be at peace with myself. I want a singleness of eye, a purity of intention, a central core to my life that will enable me to carry out these obligations and activities as well as I can. I want, in fact - to borrow from the language of the saints - to live 'in grace' as much of the time as possible. I am not using this term in a strictly theological sense. By grace I mean an inner harmony, essentially spiritual, which can be translated into outward harmony.Collection: Life
We have so little faith in the ebb and flow of life, of love, of relationships. We leap at the flow of time and resist in terror its ebb. We are afraid it will never return. We insist on permanency, on duration, on continuity; when the only continuity possible in life, as in love, is in growth, in fluidity - in freedom.Collection: Life
The most exhausting thing you can do is to be inauthentic.Collection: Vision
God may want you to be the answer to your own prayer.Collection: Prayer
I find there is a quality to being alone that is incredibly precious. Life rushes back into the void, richer, more vivid, fuller than before.Collection: Quality
What a commentary on our civilization, when being alone is considered suspect; when one has to apologize for it, make excuses, hide the fact that one practices it—like a secret vice!Collection: Practice
Travel Far, Pay No Fare... a book can take you anywhere.Collection: Education
A note of music gains significance from the silence on either side.Collection: Music
life itself is always pulling you away from the understanding of life.Collection: Understanding